How to Learn Resilience If You’re A Grown Up

DSC_0236Resilience is a real buzz word at the moment, and for good reason. We all want our children to be resilient adults, so they need to learn how to be resilient while they’re growing up. It’s a tough one – we’re all doing the best we can, but some kids are just more resilient than others.

Personally, I have two kids on opposite ends of the resilience scale. One is very resilient, takes things on the chin, moves on. Another one of my children is what I’d describe as a highly sensitive child and this can be seen in how resilient she is. She’s learning, and I’m trying to guide her, but what if the grown up guiding the child is still learning how to be resilient?  [Read more…]

Parenting is Hard… and Hurrah for the Sisterhood

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I don’t want to use this forum as a base to whinge and complain, but I just want to throw it out there. Being a parent is really hard!

For all the wonderful things our children bring us, the yin and yang of life says that they bring equally difficult, ghastly or down right horrible moments too.  [Read more…]

Parenting and the Inevitability of Chaos – plus three tips that might help.

street-chalk-73583_1280Remember the days before kids? All your time was your own, your home was your own; you were the boss of you. I can’t imagine going back to those days before our children arrived, but there is one thing that I constantly struggle with. Disorder.

When we brought our first daughter home from hospital I followed all the advice that said ‘forget the housework, it will keep’. I also thought that the chaos this brought with it was temporary and once we got in to a ‘routine’ our house would go back to normal. In a way it did go back to normal – but the meaning of normal changed in a monumental way! [Read more…]

My Year In Review: Working from Home

Five things I love about working from home cover.001As the year comes to an end and I am reflecting on what worked and what didn’t in 2015, what I’ll do differently next year and what will remain. I kept coming back to working from home, as something that is a real privilege and has so many benefits. So I thought I’d put together a list of the pros and cons of working from home. If you are considering working from home, this list might help you decide.

It’s mostly pros, but I don’t want to get all Pollyanna on you.  [Read more…]

👣October 15 – Pregnancy & Infant Loss Remembrance Day 💔

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For all the families out there that have lost a baby, October 15th is a day dedicated to you and remembering the babies that we have lost. 💔

It is Pregnancy & Infant Loss Remembrance Day. It was founded in America but every year it is growing and is fast becoming an international day of remembrance. This is because the pain of losing a baby is universal.

Too many families suffer their grief in private because our culture does not provide a forum for the grief that comes with a miscarriage, still born child or infancy loss. It is too terrible to talk about, more than any other type of grieving, this is shunned. It is extremely isolating and sadly, friends and families remaining silent compound that isolation. [Read more…]